- The bitter, bitter cold. Words fail me, so much do I hate the cold here. It’s the wind more than anything. It’s particularly bad for me since I don’t drive, and so have to walk distances and stand around for what seems like hours waiting for public transportation while freezing winds whistle in through minute gaps in my massive garments and my eyes and nose run involuntarily. No, and No again. I will not ever subject myself to this humiliation again. It nearly drove me to suicide, I joke not. For the rest of my life, I will never again sit in the shade. I will embrace every particle of heat that comes my way, and never complain.
- Not having any friends. People come and go here; you can’t depend on them, they never have your back, and you have to arrange to meet for coffee weeks in advance. Everyone works too hard anyway to have time, whether they want to socialize or not.
- Really expensive taxis. They want your pancreas for taking you a few blocks. Can’t they see it’s cold?! Prompt door-to-door transportation is a human right in temperatures like these. I am willing to dedicate my life to this cause, in perfect seriousness.
- My allergies. They only started this year, and while maybe it’s age and not location, I’m pretty damn sure I would not have come into contact with no pollen back in the M.E. Plus, my defences have been weakened by all this hygiene and lack of parasites. M contends that my immune system is currently engaged fighting my bladder infection and has no more forces to deploy to fight my allergies, but I dismiss this theory. My body is totally not fighting that infection; the doctor called me back in and showed me a long list of all the antibiotics my hardy bacteria are resistant to, which means they’re obviously running shit down there in my bidness. Not that I’m surprised at any weird bodily reactions of mine – I’ve been thrown together quite shoddily.
- No bidets. A whole civilization is walking around with shit-smeared asses here. Why, and wherefore? I look forward to cleansing my bum thoroughly, and perhaps even recreationally.
- The lack of shisha places. They have a few here, but it’s not the same. The quality is deficient for one thing, and they don’t have real coal. This bothers me for some reason. They’re also at the far end of the universe.
- Pro-Israelis. Those who embrace the brutality and crimes against humanity as the exigencies of winning a war, I have no quibble with; those are honest and informed people, and I accept that realpolitik is ultimately how the world is. It’s the ones who deny it, and make no attempt to discover the real facts, that I simply cannot stand. Not that Egypt doesn’t have ignorant people, or those who simply make no attempt to discover any truth outside their blinkered vision; it does, and richly. But I like to choose which kind of ignorance I come in contact with, and I’ll be happy not speaking to another pro-Israeli supporter again. I’m so, so tired of censoring myself on this issue because a good third of the people at my school are pro-Israeli and already eye me askance.
- No lemon wedges with soup. But we’ve been over that. Also, no garlic paste with chicken shawermas. Abu Mazen – I salivate at the thought. I’m wiping saliva off my keyboard as you read.
- Hardly any fresh fruit juices. One vacation in Cairo, I went to five different cafes in one day, and had a different juice in each one. Nothing could sate my juice thirst.
- Last call for alcohol at 1:30 a.m. When everyone knows that is when parties get started.
- The utter impossibility of getting food past midnight here. You have to search high and low, and stand in line behind hookers. And don’t even get me started on how few places deliver here, and at what astonishingly early hour they stop doing so.
- Stupid televised sports, particularly lame ones like curling, taking up the space of decent fictional programming.
Wow. I expected more. My bitterness has dissipated with the last snows it seems.
Posted in: Canada
Alluring
May 14, 2006
With the things you mentioned; and with things that you’ll discover you’ve been missing when you get there, I’m sure you’ll be more than happy to go back.
Rambling Hal
May 14, 2006
AH! ABSOLUTELY!! Love this post too! And about that first not-ever-missing-the-cold rant, I just wanna mention, WIND BURN. Most painful condition in the world, when your skiw turns raw and red from having been exposed to the coldest wind in the world, despite being covered in layers.And the damn layers I used to wear, take ages to take everything off when you walk into anywhere, coz it’s all over heated, then ages to put it back on when you go out…HATE HATE.And yes, the taxis are expensive, but I miss being able to call for a taxi cab anytime and anywhere, and being able to give the cab company a specific and understandable address to come get me from. Oh well….can’t have it all.
FreudianSlip
May 14, 2006
I couldn’t have said it better…good riddance dude and 3o2balna kolena.
forsoothsayer
May 14, 2006
don’t u prefer hailing a cab from anywhere?
Anonymous
May 15, 2006
wow….couldn’t have said it better myself…a true egyptian lover fe3lan!! 🙂 cheers
LouLou
May 15, 2006
Have a good trip back. Will you be blogging from Cairo? Are you expecting a steady supply of things to mock?
Dr Haisook
May 15, 2006
In 2 days of your stay in Egypt, you’re gonna ‘MISS’ the bitter cold, not having any friends, no bidets, the allergies, no shisha, and everything!You’re either *sorry* mentally-retarded or very optimistic to criticize one of the most civilized nations in the world, and comparing it to a piece of sh!t like Egypt!Anyways, I guess days in Egypt are gonna teach you.
forsoothsayer
May 15, 2006
I HAVE lived in Egypt before. Have you lived in Canada before? No? then shut the hell up, you rude and condescending prick.
Dr Haisook
May 15, 2006
I don’t need to visit Canada to know how it looks. Statistics say it all. Plus, I’ve lived in Dubai for the most part of my life, and I believe it has the same lifestyle of Canada, if not Canada’s better.You’re leaving Canada because you are OBLIGATED to do so. You’ve been on a Student Visa, and you have to leave the country as soon as you graduate.Sorry, I didn’t intentionally want to be offensive even though I might have sounded so. I couldn’t keep the words in.
Dr Haisook
May 15, 2006
And of course you wouldn’t find a lot of places serving shishas because only fu**ed up people enjoy it (mostly Arabs for sure). Heck!Well, I think it’s all fair. Looking for shisha in Canada. Haha. You deserve to be in Egypt, and not vice versa.Good Luck
forsoothsayer
May 16, 2006
the Gulf is nothing like Canada, trust me. i grew up there too. i am not obligated to leave canada, you presumptive moron; i am a canadian citizen.i know dozens of other egyptians who are canadian citizens who have voluntarily left here after getting their degrees because they didn’t like it here.seriously, don’t comment on my blog again.
Dr Haisook
May 16, 2006
Oh dear.. that’s life. Why, our creator, would You provide such creature with a Canadian citizenship while it doesn’t deserve it, not even need it?Well, ok.. I’m not gonna comment again on this thing. I’ve actually been losing time talking with someone like you.Bye
Dr Haisook
May 16, 2006
..and oh, it seems you’re one f**ked up alcoholic bitch (I’ve noticed it in your talk about yourself in this damn blog).Take care not to run anyone over in the lovely streets of Cairo that you like!Hating Canada.. huh? *f**k*
Sand-E Sez
May 16, 2006
HaHaHa dr Haisook don’t get your panties all twisted up in a bunch. While the shishaing isn’t the healthiest recreational activity. It is the social ritual associated with it that makes it oh so much fun. It is true about wanting to leave Canada though. It’s got all the resources and structure that is lacking in Egypt but it’s the rigidness of everything that kills you in the end! You long for chaos and noise! I’m fully Canadian and have been living here for more than a decade but as soon as I get the opportunity i’m gonna pack up and jet… For a bit at least.
Dr Haisook
May 16, 2006
I’m sick of the fucking RANDOMNESS of Egypt. Yeah, I want rigidness. I’m longing for it. This fucking randomness has buried my creativity down deep, because noone would notice it in this fucked up chaos.Hating Canada..?! I can’t believe it.
forsoothsayer
May 16, 2006
Actually I don’t drink that much…but obviously i’m not going to talk about the days when i stay at home and drink tea on my blog. i should point out to you that personal insults do NOT comprise arguments. you want to discredit my ideas, you shouldn’t do it by saying i’m crazy or an alcoholic. this is precisely why Canada wouldn’t do for you. and asterisks do not exactly disguise profanity. But hey, you want to go to canada so much, contact me when you acquire an iota of civility. i’m an immigration lawyer, and canada is begging for pharmacists. hell, i’d do it for free just to see how much you’d really like it here.
FreudianSlip
May 17, 2006
No matter what you say or how much you say it you won’t be able to experience how boring life is here until you live it. It’s not just about the shisha or any of the items listed(though i fully share your bidet-related-pain). I’ve had this debate over and over again with people in masr…it’s a feeling that can’t be put into words really. It’s not just that i miss Egypt and i get all nostalgic whenever i smell bus fumes…i think i’d be happier anywhere ELSE (as long as it’s not in North America) but since for now at least and since i AM Egyptian, i think it’s only fair that we give it a chance and not solely rely on hearsay…dr haissok, if you think Canada is in ANYWAY similar to Dubai, you’ve got another thing coming.
forsoothsayer
May 17, 2006
thank you ladies :)yeah i’ve often thought, europe might also be a nice place for us – it has soul. bas ba3d ma nehda and regain sufficent warmth and bidet-ing in egypt.
Dr Haisook
May 17, 2006
FUCK, all you care about is your asses?! You can get a custom-made toilets anywhere. How could you tolerate the dirtiness, randomness, rudeness, ignorance, proverty, hypocrisy, pollution, and noise present in Egypt?Btw, I don’t particularly wanna go to Canada. I’m just talking generally. I’m going to go to the US for my medical career (I’m not a pharmacist).
FreudianSlip
May 18, 2006
I’m sorry that i don’t wanna use ass wipes every time i use the loo. That’s not all we care about but i guess you were too angry to umm comprehend. If you can’t tolerate the aforementioned items then why don’t you just move and let us make own choices? Dude, we all said that if things don’t work out…we’ll move ON. sheesh. I don’t think you’d be able to make it anywhere else aslan with that attitude.
Chris in Manitoba
May 18, 2006
“The bitter, bitter cold.”Aww come on, Toronto does not get very cold at all!You’ve got to head out to Manitoba for the REAL cold & snow.Nothing like a -38 day with 50km winds. Freezing exposed flesh within seconds. Speaking with slurred speech because your jaw & mouth have frozen.Also waking up in the morning and finding you car completely gone, buried under a snow drift.You will miss the snow won’t you? It’s the heat I can’t stand! Anything over 24 just kills me.
forsoothsayer
May 18, 2006
our genes are set up VERY differently. where i grew up, 50 and 60 degrees celcius were commonplace. i might miss the snow….well, looking at it from the inside.
Chris in Manitoba
May 18, 2006
50 or 60!!!!Your kidding right?I remember we had almost 2 weeks of 36C two years ago & I was on the verge of killing someone I was so miserable.
Gilgamish
May 20, 2006
you know i am very surprised, I thought only the deprived, poor small city dwellers such as we the Windsorites are the one who are suffering bcz of our bad transportation system and the very expensive taxis, it seems Torontians as well. Sad. sad. sad.And I agree about social life, through all my university life, each semester had its own different set of people, it seems ppl come and go, like t-shirts, pants or whatever, you wear em, and then disspose them , horrible horrible analogy but that was my case, it seems ppl are quite mobile and they do not stay in one place but thank goodness, I ended up with one cool friend post my graduation, she is my type and I like her, the thing is she is extremely bussy and yes you have to set a time for coffee in advance. but you know what, snow is good, you know how to like it, snowboard?!
forsoothsayer
May 20, 2006
girl, you didn’t have any friends in undergrad….god help you in law school. worst three years ever. i was told fe3lan to embrace the snow, but i never did…but it’s not so much the snow as the wind. it’s not that the tranportation system is bad…it couldn’t probably be any better. i just hate walking when it’s cold. and i don’t live near the subway line.
tooners
May 21, 2006
the one thing about #5 is that many ppl that use the bidet (in this part of the world) don’t get themselves clean! weren’t taught how to do it properly… or from what i’ve heard – many houses/parents don’t teach it… so you get ppl not cleansing properly because the water doesn’t clean thoroughly, truly. only gets off the surface crap (literally).and then… to get up w/ ur behind all wet, to me, it’s disgusting. why not use the toilet paper to wipe it dry?! i don’t get it… guess i never will.
forsoothsayer
May 21, 2006
you ARE supposed to dry with toilet paper.
tooners
May 22, 2006
i think that ppl need to help “clean” w/ the toilet paper… because water doesn’t always do the trick.i’ve noticed, in this part of the world, that ppl are dirty in the bathroom. here at my ofc, it’s always a mess. the toilets are disgusting – water is everywhere – and no one cleans up after themselves. i’m sure that a lot revolves around prayer… but i don’t get using the toilet area to clean yourself for prayer. and i, for one, don’t want to go in after these women and use the bathroom when they’ve dirtied up the place. and you ask why not use another bathroom… there are none. i hate it. to me, this whole water thing is messy – but it does make you feel fresh! 🙂
Betqa
May 24, 2006
Hey… I can definitely identify with point #1… I don’t miss the winters of the great white north either.As for point number 5, I actually knew lots of people with bidets in Montreal. Here in Europe, a lot of homes have them. This flat that I bought a few years ago didn’t (pace issue, small bathroom), but there’s an easy way to take care of that. All you need is to connect one of those little hoses with a small shower head. It does the job…I don’t know what you’re talking about in point number 9… I never had problems getting fresh juices in cafes in Canada…well, at least in Montreal. Actually, looking at points 10 and 11, I can say that you’re not in the wrong country, but in the wrong province. In MTL we’d party at the clubs till about 3:30 or 4 and then get something to eat…
forsoothsayer
May 24, 2006
i thought about moving to montreal but the cold would be even worse there and i can’t practice law there (different legal system).